Negative Comments

‘Don’t allow negative comments to hinder your progress.’ – Unique Fatso

It has taken me years to block out the negative comments from people!

My body is mine.

My appearance is mine.

Fat is mine.

Cellulite is mine.

Larger clothes, all mine.

However, people from all different circles, like to comment. Why?

So you don’t like how MY body looks – Then don’t look.

You hate my style of dress – show me the receipts you have, for the clothes you don’t buy for me.

I’m too fat for you – You aren’t carrying me around, are you?

Cellulite – I own that.

I’m not vying for your attention.

I don’t need your words. Please, remain silent.

I’m on a journey of weight loss, my personal journey. I’ve acknowledged that becoming fitter and healthier, is in my best interest to choose health.

However, it has taken me years to ignore the negative energy. All around me like vultures awaiting the right time to peck through my meaty thighs.

I don’t need to hear your squawking!

I’m focusing on me.

Get off my thighs and stop watching me.

My look repulses you? Why do you stare? Why do you stay?

GO AWAY! In silence.

Your voices, all around me, frequently I’m tired.

Negative comments are exhausting.

Why deplete your energy in such a way? Could you not help those in need?

Volunteering is a great place to start.

Keeps you fit and healthy and pumps negative energy out your heart.

I’m on MY weight-loss journey, your positivity is welcomed and appreciated. ‘If you don’t have anything good to say, don’t say it at all.’ In your heart you know you’re not conceited.

All I want to do is focus on my health and fitness.

I have endured negative comments for most of my life. They have pulled me down to Dante’s level and made my eating habits worse.

With each negative comment absorbed, I consumed more food.

I sunk into unhealthy eating and convinced myself I was never going to lose weight.

I gave up.

Days passed me.

Weeks bulked me up.

Months fattened me.

One day I thought enough is enough.

I started to make better choices and block out the constant abuse.

I’m trying to lose weight and be healthy. I’m trying to improve.

I don’t need trolling commentary or rudimental vocal tips.

When a person decides to make a change in their life, it is their choice. It’s hard enough trying to get through the 24hours in a day – without negative people floating around you.

No more will I plummet my energy into worrying about what others think.

I am who I am.

You have your own mind, and you may think what you think. There is no need to vocalise your thoughts on ME.

I don’t care about that.

To all those on their personal weight loss journeys, don’t allow negative comments to hinder your progress. You owe them no attention.

Be strong.

Remain focused.

Push through.

Remember why you started on your weight loss journey and embrace who you are right now.

You are a wonderful person, on route to your diet and fitness goals.

You will achieve them.

You will lose weight.

You will become healthier.

Believe in yourself.

You are Unique!

#UniqueFatso